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Coaching Ethics

Created Oct 30, 2026, 5:01 AM · Updated Oct 30, 2026, 5:01 AM

Develop the person without hiding behind consent when the drill is unsafe or pointless.

Key Concept

  • Consent does not erase the job when the drill is unsafe.
  • Waivers protect against lawsuits, not against the drill actually hurting someone.
  • Unsafe or pointless drills still owe reasonable protection to people under your influence.

Level 1 - Recognize

Coaching ethics is the duty to protect people under your influence from unsafe or pointless harm.

Level 2 - Explain

Consent and waivers do not remove that duty because authority, expertise, and risk are not shared equally.

Level 3 - Use

Refuse the dangerous drill or cleanse even when the participant agreed to it.

Level 4 - Connect

Protection must respect autonomy without hiding behind consent; weigh benefit, risk, power, and safer alternatives through Duty of Care.

Level 5 - Create

Create a safety review for drills that states the benefit, risk, stop rule, and safer option before anyone participates.

Examples

  • The coach who cited the signed waiver after a near-drown was not coaching - glad the parent complaint named what Duty of Care owed.
  • The gym sold a dangerous cleanse because customers clicked agree - coaching ethics means you still owe reasonable protection to people under your influence.

Note Relationships

RelationshipWikilinkReason
contradictsLife Before Achievementwhen the opposite frame fits better
extendsDevelop, Don't EndangerDevelop the person - unsafe drills do not get consent cover
extendsSafety Comes FirstConsent does not erase the job when the drill is unsafe
extendsServant LeadershipServe people under you - consent is not a shield for bad drills
implementsFollow Their LeadJoin their world except when the move endangers them
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